(left, Stockard Channing and Julia Stiles in "The Business of Strangers")


This updated article first appeared in 2002.


by Henry Makow Ph.D.

We live in a culture that doesn't admit that women need sex every bit as much as men, if not more.

Conservatives put women on a romantic pedestal. Women are virginal and sexless. Feminists deny women need men for anything.

"Women are made to feel guilty for needing men," my wife said. "We're portrayed as weak, co-dependent or lacking in self-esteem."

My teenage son also inculcated this message from TV: "Women don't need sex," he said. "They're just doing men a favor."

Sex and love have become horribly confused. When religion held sway, they were inseparable (i.e. marriage.)

But today "sexual liberation" has freed sex from love. It has taken love's place. Millions of men and women behave like addicts. They use sex to assuage a desperate craving for love that only love can satisfy.


DESPERATELY SEEKING LOVE


An excellent independent movie, "The Business of Strangers" (2001) explores the effect feminism has had on modern women. Writer/director Patrick Stettner illustrates how American women have traded love for the sterility, banality and inhumanity of corporate culture.

This is what movies should do: Reflect modern life. Yet this brilliant movie bombed (or was torpedoed) at the box office, making less than $500,000. Fortunately, critics liked it and it is widely available on DVD.

Two women are stranded overnight at an airport hotel while on a sales trip. Stockard Channing plays "Julie Styron," successful divorced 45-ish VP Sales whose best friend is her secretary.

Julia Stiles plays Paula Murphy, a tough 25-ish "writer" who works the overhead projector.

The movie shows how career has supplanted family for women like Styron. Feminism promised that women could have both, but this did not happen.

Forty seven per cent of 40-something women with professional degrees have no children. Only 14% of these women said they didn't want children.  ("Creating a Life: Professional Life and the Quest for Children" by Sylvia Ann Hewitt)

Styron is fired without warning. But when she immediately lands an even better job as a CEO, she is strangely indifferent.


ODE TO WASTE & FRUSTRATION

In the hotel bar with Styron, Paula  recognizes Nick Harris (left) a slick young corporate head-hunter played by Fred Weller. He is the man who raped her best friend years ago at a frat party. She lures him to Styron's suite and puts tranquilizers in his drink. 

After he passes out, the two women indulge in an orgy of hatred over his unconscious body. They undress him, cover him with obscene graffiti, smear blood and strike him. Both women clearly despise men. Murphy confides it was actually she who had suffered the rape.

However, later it emerges that Nick is a rapist in her mind only. Styron learns that he had never been to the city where the rape had supposedly taken place.

Talk about hate. Men are "rapists" because they are not giving women the love they need. The result is self-loathing and resentment against men. Feminism first makes women and men incompatible; then it exploits women's frustration and rage.
 

"WHAT DOES WOMAN WANT?"

The great Sigmund Freud was unable to answer this question despite  "thirty years of research into the feminine soul."

Chaucer's "Wife of Bath" knew the answer: Woman wants to be loved. She'll do anything for love, even if she has to become a feminist.

Many Western women today are dysfunctional because they are getting contradictory messages. Society tells them to be "strong and independent," i.e. successful in a career.

But this behavior is masculine and makes men feel redundant. Men don't like these women. Thus women are doing what society tells them to do, yet are not getting the male love they expect and need.

Women are loved when they put their husband and children before themselves. It is feminine to self efface. Men love these women because they become part of them.

I am not against a woman having a career, only putting it before marriage and family.


GETTING DATING STRAIGHT


A single friend characterized a typical date this way. He describes his work and seeks affirmation and respect. She describes her work and seeks affirmation and respect from him. They never see each other again. (They are already competing.)

This is NOT how heterosexuals mate. Women are hypergamous, which means they seek men of higher power and status. Nurses marry doctors.

On a date, a man reveals himself and his vision of life. She decides if she's interested in him or not. If she is, she affirms him by her acceptance and encouragement. In marriage, she demonstrates her love by trusting him to take care of her interests.

 He also affirms her by seeking her acceptance. Yes, he also wants her to be capable and successful. But his recognition and nurturing come later.

All successful organizations are hierarchical. The heterosexual family is male dominated. If you wanted to destroy it, you promote equality. Our culture is doing this.
 

THE FEMINIST TRAP

It is mind-boggling but our politicians, media and educators are deliberately sabotaging society. Feminism like its Communist forebear dogmatically denies human sexual differences, such as the fact that men have 10 times the testosterone levels of women.   

There are over 900 Women's Studies Programs in the United States teaching impressionable young women to deny their femininity. According to "Issues in Feminism: An Introduction to Women's Studies" femininity is "patriarchal mind control." The "best slaves are the ones who don't even know they are slaves." Who authorized this indoctrination in lesbian dysfunction?

This vicious state-sponsored hoax is ruining millions of lives. The CIA and the Rockefeller Foundation sponsor it. The super rich use tax-exempt foundations to promote Communism, according to the 1954 Reese Committee Report of the U.S. Congress.

Feminism is another manifestation of Communism, which was always sponsored by the international bankers and their corporate allies. Their goal is to transfer all power to a global state, which they control. By harnessing the authoritarian power of the state, Big Brother will serve Big Business.  

The stated goal of the Communist Manifesto is to destroy the nuclear family. People without stable families are easy to distract and control. Sex starved, isolated, and dysfunctional, the few children they have are also messed up. The U.S. birth rate is at the lowest point in history.

WOMAN THE MULTIPLIER (MAN X WOMAN = CHILDREN)

A woman's elaborate reproductive apparatus has a profound influence on her psyche. Each month she produces an egg and she is devoted to seeing that egg fertilized, then to giving birth and raising a child.

On the other hand, a woman is the fertile ground for a man's spirit to grow. First she accepts his spirit. Then she accepts his seed, from which a child grows.

Men need to be lovingly received and affirmed. Women need to be possessed and cultivated. This is wholeness. Their child symbolizes it.

When this connection is stymied, we have arrested development. Many women become angry and psychotic like Styron and Murphy. Men have become detached and selfish. Both are obsessed with sex.

The media makes women appear like remote goddesses but they are passionate sexual creatures that need committed love and direction from a man.

In a true marriage, two people become one. Each complements the other. Women's strengths should not be the same as men's and vice versa.

Independence is the big issue in feminist marriages. They are mergers, a pooling of assets designed to achieve economic and sexual synergies. The two people fail to bond and remain immature. They struggle for power and break up.

CONCLUSION

Heterosexual society has been under sustained psychological attack designed to arrest human development and decrease population. Feminism is the weapon of choice.  It encourages women to deny their femininity and act like men.

Feminine women are characterized by selflessness. They are not hunters. They are not killers. They are a little vulnerable in a worldly sense. How do men respond to them? By wanting to nurture and protect them. This is how men love. This is what women want.

In "The Business of Strangers" both women have become hunters. As a result, they hate men but worse they hate themselves. Victims of a diabolical  plot, they have mutated. They need a man's love in order to be themselves again.
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Another review
 

By Jeff Jefferson

 

A recent billboard campaign from the designer, Calvin Klein, has caused a stir.  The ad features youths engaged in group sex on a couch.  The scene depicts a topless girl (I intentionally say girl, not woman) lying on top of a shirtless boy whose head rests on the lap of another shirtless boy.  She is kissing the boy that is sitting..  Another shirtless boy lies on the floor in front of the others.  The sexual messages that this image transmits are very obvious.  

Everyday, the average person is bombarded with sexual images like this. What is striking about the Calvin Klein ad is that it depicts people that are quite young.  From many of the comments that I have read on news-blogs, the outraged are in the minority.  In fact, most of the comments are directed towards calling the outraged "prudes."  What does this say about a society that defends the sexualization of its youth?  Such a society has lost its moral compass.

Of course, this situation has been established incrementally over many years.  There has been a long running, concerted, effort to slowly drag western society into a state of  depravity.  The conspirators  often target children and teens because they are at an age where impressions have long lasting consequences.  Hitler was well aware that to bring about future realities, one must capture the minds of the young:  as he stated in Mein Kampf, "Look at these young men and boys!  What material!  With them, I can make a new world."  A new world is exactly what is in the making.

Just when people have become numb to the idea of students putting condoms on bananas in public schools, the conspirators have stepped up their assault on the minds of children.  In the U.S., President Obama's Safe School Czar, Kevin Jennings, is a founding member of a group known as GLSEN (Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network).  In April of 2005, GLSEN organized events at high schools across Massachusetts to promote tolerance.  In at least one high school, copies of "The Little Black Book - Queer in the 21^st Century"," which discusses very explicit sex acts along with a directory of gay bars, were distributed to students middle school age and older.  http://www.massresistance.org/docs/issues/black_book/black_book_inside.html

At another conference, GLSEN handed out "fisting kits" along with detailed instructions on how this act is performed. 

http://gatewaypundit.firstthings.com/2009/12/fistgate-ii-high-school-students-given-fisting-kits-at-kevin-jennings-glsen-conference/

Currently, GLSEN is promoting a list of books that they recommend schools use to educate students from grades K-12.  The stated purpose of these books are to promote tolerance, etc.  The children and young teen characters in these books are depicted engaging in various sex acts with other children and adults.  Sample excerpts from these books can be found here: 

 http://gatewaypundit.firstthings.com/2009/12/breaking-obamas-safe-schools-czar-is-promoting-porn-in-the-classroom-kevin-jennings-and-the-glsen-reading-list/

Hiding behind the façade of tolerance education, these N.W.O. conspirators are exposing young minds to sexual depravity.  Much of the material deals with objectifying one's sex partner: random indiscriminate sex, fetishes, sex between children and adults, etc.  From these stories, students can conclude that people are no longer potential companions with thoughts and feelings with which one can form a solid lasting relationship; instead, people become sexual objects, pieces of flesh to be used to gratify oneself.  Everyone and everything is fair game.  Sex is fetish.  We are all predators.

The Calvin Klein billboard captures the essence of this state of mind.  The girl is an object to be used by the three boys.  One gets the sense that if she were not there, the boys would be using each other. But the real shock is in how average people have become immune to the image.  This is the result of so called "tolerance" education.  What passes for tolerance is really a guise for erasing instincts which distinguish between healthily and sick, good and evil.

There is nothing prudish about decency.  There is nothing prudish about wanting to protect your children from sexual images and ideas that they expose them to exploitation and debauchery. Instead of teaching children about "tolerance," they need to be taught love and respect for other people.  They need to be taught that sex without love and respect is, in essence, just beating off with a helper.

To Jean D'eau (Hungarian Correspondent):

Thought of you when I came across this video. Is Wiesel speaking Hungarian?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWt8ICajaD8&hl=de

As you know, Gruner said he didn't know how.

Reply:


Wiesel is speaking Hungarian in the video you`ve linked, but it`s a very poor Hungarian and -let me not enter in the semantic details- it`s not poor because he forgot a bit but because he did not really learn the language. In the parliament where he spoke English all along when he was ordering Hungary to jail the holocaust deniers:  http://kuruc.info/r/26/51928/  He was also the guest of the Hungarian christian Zionists where he kept speaking in English.

 

 

Here is a link:  http://kuruc.info/r/6/51815/ where we see that Mr Grüner has finally succeeded to publish his book both in Hungarian and English. Needless to say that I`ve never seen it in a Hungarian library and probably will never as long as the Lubavitcher-satanists will stay in the country.